Hello my Filthies,

Our June content poll opened up! Vote here: https://app.swallowpoll.com/qrCrwcHfxQ

Continuing on with the "How to find a Kinky Girlfriend" I'll answer this question:

"Do you share your kinky side with friends and family or keep it a secret?"

Both. Like substance use, unkind thoughts, and sexual proclivities, remember joke rules: 'read the room' and 'know your audience'.

Zero in on your internal motivations when talking about such things. Are you at peace with yourself? Why and from whom do you need validation?

At Thanksgiving dinner, would you tell your brother he under-salted the food? Are you trying to get a petty win over him by putting him down or are you showing love with an arbitrary razz that he expects and appreciates?

Keep it pragmatic. Prove things to yourself, not others. You cannot change people's minds - especially not with logic. A passionate wall of text delivered irl might as well be spaghetti falling o
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